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What solution against premature ejaculation?

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Strange to talk about premature ejaculation in this sex toy test blog . Not really, because you should know that sex toys can be of great help to men who suffer from premature ejaculation. We allow ourselves to put the word "sulfur" because a large majority of men who ejaculate prematurely see it as an annoyance towards their partner, not to say a shame. It completely ruins their daily sexual relations, to the point that some guys refuse any relationship with another person, focusing on masturbation .

 

Through this article, we are going to take stock of premature ejaculation and give you all our advice to try to deal with it.

What is premature ejaculation?

 

Before giving our advice, a quick point already on what concretely premature ejaculation is. It is quite simply one of the two most common male sexual disorders! In fact, nearly 1 in 4 men suffer from premature ejaculation , also known as premature ejaculation. That is 25% of men. So you're not the only guy to suffer! Imagine you are in your group of friends, you are 10 guys and at least 1 other of these guys has the same problem as you. For your information, the second most common disorder of male sexuality is erection problems.

To consider that you actually have premature ejaculation, three elements must be met according to doctors:

  • on the one hand, your ejaculation must arrive very soon after you have penetrated your partner, whether it is vaginal or anal penetration. When we say very shortly after, it means 1 minute later, or even less than 20 seconds later for the vast majority of cases.

  • then you can't hold back your ejaculation, or control it. Concretely, you ejaculate when you had not given the "order".

  • Finally, it must affect you psychologically.

If one of these 3 points is not present, then you do not have premature ejaculation.

We personally would add a 4th point: it must be recurrent. Because having ejaculation problems, all guys have them and it depends on several elements: temporary stress related to work or something else, fatigue, temporary loss of self-confidence, etc.

In addition, it should be noted that generally, the first days or even weeks of a new relationship, because the state of excitement is stronger (knowledge of a new body, discovery perhaps of new positions or even new sexual practices) then it can be difficult to hold back your ejaculation. Nothing serious, no stress!

In this regard, there are two types of premature ejaculation:

  • primary premature ejaculation : whatever your partners, you have premature ejaculation systematically, with each report

  • secondary premature ejaculation : it is a premature ejaculation which appears suddenly and is maintained. It can be linked to several reasons: 

    • psychological difficulty (psychology and sexuality are strongly linked)

    • a disease such as prostatitis or a neurological disorder

Also, it is important to specify that premature ejaculation in itself is not a disease ! On the other hand, the consequences that this can generate in men can lead to depression, anxiety, or even refraining from any sexual act with another person.

What are the causes of premature ejaculation?

Even if the psychological character is one of the main causes of premature ejaculation, you should know that other disorders can be the cause. Here they are in detail:

  • hypersensitivity of the glans,

  • hyper-excitability of the ejaculation reflex,

  • disorders of the transmission of nerve messages in the brain or hypersensitivity of certain nerve receptors,

  • inflammation of the prostate (chronic prostatitis),

  • abnormalities of the thyroid gland (hyperthyroidism),

  • a neurological disease, such as multiple sclerosis.

How to stop premature ejaculation?

To deal with premature ejaculation, there are several techniques that we will present to you below. If you are at the start of a new relationship, don't worry, this can be normal. Between the state of excitement and the stress that one can put on oneself to "be up to it" and want to satisfy the partner at all costs, this can lead to erectile dysfunction. No stress in this case.

The role of foreplay against premature ejaculation

If you're not a fan of foreplay and you want to go straight to the point with penetration, then you'll have to review your strategy! Foreplay is indeed an excellent lever to deal with premature ejaculation:

  • not only do they make it possible to establish a relaxed climate between the partners, which is less burdensome. Thus, this will make the report less stressful, less in performance, less in the obligation to have to satisfy the partner at all costs.

  • then, they allow you to have a different sexuality that is not 100% focused on penetration. Massages, caresses, rubbing, etc. are all elements that give pleasure.

 

Remember one thing: penetration does not have to be systematic! There are many other ways to please your partner. So you can use sex toys during foreplay.

For example, if you are a fan of anal penetration, you can use two types of sex toys on your partner: the prostate stimulator and the anal plug .

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Opinion of Jonathan - Le Male Français on the Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator:

It's quite simply the ideal sex toy for discovering the joys of anal pleasure! Yes, I am talking about joy because when you have discovered this, you will not be able to do without it! This Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator is very pleasant to the touch, very soft, which allows gentle introduction into the anus. Likewise, it is relatively thin, which means that beginners will have no fear in using it. Its shape will directly touch the prostate and the base will allow you to press the perineum at the same time: double pleasure guaranteed.

But you can also use anal plugs. Be careful if the person is new to sodomy, first opt for a beginner's anal plug so as not to hurt him and give him a bad image of the use of these sex toys.

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Put on a condom against premature ejaculation

One of the reasons you may have premature ejaculation is because of glans or frenulum tenderness. Besides, you can be aware of it yourself when you masturbate: if you feel that you are hyper sensitive, then premature ejaculation can only come from there. The idea is therefore to reduce the sensitivity of the glans and frenulum.

 

The first thing to do is to avoid any contact between your penis and the body or hands. No friction of your penis against the skin of your partner, no masturbation, you leave your penis alone!

Then, putting on a condom can be a great way to reduce sensitivity and therefore premature ejaculation . But be careful, do not take any condom! Do not use thin, light, skin-type condoms. On the contrary, opt for thick condoms or condoms that contain delay gels. We recommend, for example, Manix Endurance condoms, which will delay your ejaculation thanks to a specially formulated gel placed inside.

To buy these durable condoms, click on the image below.

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Anesthetic cream against premature ejaculation

Another product that can be tested against premature ejaculation is the application of an anesthetic cream to the penis and in particular to the glans. So the advantage is that the glans will indeed be less sensitive, and therefore you will be able to have more control over ejaculation. On the other hand, you will lose a little in terms of sensations. To use therefore if you are really embarrassed, troubled, anxious by your premature ejaculation.

To buy the cream from Rhino, click on the image below.

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Masturbating against premature ejaculation

Finally, the last advice we will give you to deal with premature ejaculation is simply to control your body and in particular your ejaculation. And to do this, nothing better than masturbation. You have to listen to yourself, listen to your body, understand how it reacts, and especially your excitement. You have to master it and to do this, masturbation is a great way.

  • First, try to see how quickly, with what gestures you are most sensitive when you masturbate.

  • When you feel ejaculation coming, stop and focus on your breath or thought to try to block it.

It's going to take time to figure out exactly what excites you the most and how to deal with it. To do this, we advise you to use masturbators. Why ? Because they contain textures inside that are supposed to increase your desire. Some thus take on the sensation of a vagina or anus, ideal for self-control before being with your partner.

Here are the masturbators that we recommend:

Masturbation eggs from Tenga : disposable, inexpensive, each egg has a unique texture, ideal for testing different textures and controlling your masturbation. Moreover, they are discreet.

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Tenga Masturbator

Egg Wavy

7,90€

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Tenga Masturbator

Egg Spider

7,90€

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Tenga Masturbator

Egg Crater

7,90€

 

Here is a video presentation of these Tenga eggs below:

Another 1st price masturbator that we recommend is the Tenga Orginial Vacuum Cup masturbator.

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Opinion of Jonathan - Le Male Français on the Original Vacuum Cup masturbator:

If you want a mix between a basic masturbator such as Tenga eggs and more elaborate vibrating masturbators, then this Original Vacuum Cup masturbator from Tenga is for you. It's a disposable masturbator (well, several uses are possible) but which offers a relatively thick texture in which you can insert your whole penis. Very pleasant textures inside to have very nice sensations during masturbation. And above all the deep throat effect is really very well done!!  

Fleshlight masturbators

Finally, the third type of masturbator that we recommend are those of the Fleshlight brand, which are particularly well made. If you want to have the closest sensations to vaginal or anal penetration, then these are the masturbators you have to take. And we particularly recommend the Fleshlight Flight Pilot masturbator.

 

Click on the picture below to buy this product.

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Want more sex tips? 

 

If you want to have more advice on male sexuality in general, we advise you to subscribe to our Instagram account Faistoimale which only talks about that!! You don't have Instagram, no worries, we are also present on Facebook . We exchange a lot between guys on this account, especially through the Sexy Sunday question.

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