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What are the masturbation techniques?

Here is an article that will please you! Masturbating. And yes it's a subject on which the guys speak very little, because badly considered, even as a completely deviant and unhealthy subject. Moreover, in some countries, masturbation is not tolerated and is seen as something bad. Don't we say that masturbation makes you deaf? Not here, not in this sex toy test blog, masturbation is a completely normal sexual act! Some species of animals masturbate. Normal and natural.

Summary of the article:

1. Why do men masturbate?

2. How do men do their masturbation?

2.1 Manual masturbation

2.2 Masturbation with a sex toy

2.3 Mechanical masturbation

3. How to make masturbation even more enjoyable?

Why do men masturbate?

Masturbation can serve different purposes if I may say so.

First of all, it's masturbation is an ideal act to discover yourself, discover your body and moreover to better tame your ejaculation. By doing a masturbation, you learn to use your penis in a sexual setting and to be able to block an ejaculation if necessary, to prolong the pleasure.

But the number one reason men masturbate is to relax , when they're a little stressed or upset. Masturbation is therefore an excellent anti-stress. This is why a lot of guys masturbate right before bed.

Finally, masturbation may also be linked to sexual frustration. If you're single and can't have regular sex, you have urges, which is completely normal. And of course if you are in a relationship and you are dissatisfied with your relationship with your partner, you are not fulfilled or you do not have the same desires. Masturbation will then be perceived as a solution to spice up your sex life.

How do men do their masturbation?


There are different techniques for masturbation, three precisely: manual masturbation, manual masturbation accompanied by a sex toy and mechanical masturbation. But it turns out that the use of sex toys is very little used by guys and their hand turns out to be their main ally. We will see this in a little more detail.

Manual masturbation


It is a fact, men do their masturbation mainly with their hands. Good, at the same time the hands are practical, they are available as soon as a sudden desire to masturbate is felt, and this whatever the place. But the disadvantage also of manual masturbation is that it can quickly turn into a routine, with the same gestures systematically. Hence the interest of being very imaginative to break this routine through erotic fantasies, scenarios, etc.

But how do you properly masturbate with your hands?

  • first of all, take your time! Masturbating well is not a race (well, unless you only have two minutes to do it), the important thing is to make yourself happy. And the longer it lasts, the better it is with masturbation. Also, don't go back and forth like a nag on your erect penis!

  • then do not overtighten. On the contrary, alternate the moments when you will squeeze your penis, masturbate it in a very firm way, and the moments when you will just rub it, caress it.

  • finally, use your other parts of the body: the nipples, the purses, the inside of the thighs... Do not hesitate to touch them, to caress them..

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Masturbation with a sex toy


Very few guys use a sex toy while masturbating and that's a real shame because you can experience far greater sensations than using your hands. It must also be said that the use of sextoys by guys is not very cultural and is above all the subject of women. That women use a vibrator while masturbating does not shock anyone, we see it regularly in mainstream films or in series. But have you ever seen in these films or in these series a guy using a sex toy to jerk off?

And it's a shame and it's also the reason why I developed this sexy section on this blog. Because there should be no taboo or embarrassment to talk about it. To come back to masturbation with a sex toy, I advise you to use different kinds, precisely to discover new sensations. I assure you, sensations that will make you reach male orgasm.

Masturbation with a cock ring

The first sex toy that I recommend for a good masturbation, which will change you from the ordinary, is the cockring , also called penis ring . It's great ! The cock ring is positioned at the base of the penis and you can even insert your testicles there. It is to be applied when your penis is at rest or in semi-soft. The advantage of this sex toy is that when your penis is erect, it will tighten the base and therefore prevent blood flow. Your penis will thus have a larger size (in width). Why is it interesting in the context of masturbation?

  • because your penis will be bigger so in hand you will have the feeling of having another penis.

  • the veins will also be more marked, which could turn you on

  • Finally, the glans will be more sensitive.


As for cock rings, I recommend the king of cock rings, the Bond cock ring from We-Vibe .


Opinion of Jonathan - Le Male Français on the We-Vibe Cockring Bond:

The strong point of this cock ring lies in its opening which allows very easy fitting around the penis (or around the testicles). And this regardless of the size of the penis. The remote control that comes with it allows you to play with the different vibration modes simply. The elongated shape of this cock ring also allows you to press on the perineum for even more sensations. A very good cock ring for a solo moment during masturbation or during a relationship with his/her partner.

If you are a little limited in terms of budget, you can opt for this kit of 3 cock rings at 1st price for less than 6€. This will already do the trick perfectly to have a bigger penis and therefore enjoy your masturbation differently!

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But you can also find my complete guide to cock rings in which I give all my advice for choosing the right one and especially my selection of cock rings at all prices: How to choose and use a cock ring?

Masturbation with an anal plug or prostate stimulator

Wow, I see fear in your eyes. Don't worry, all of the topics covered on this blog are aimed at improving the well-being of men, so I'm not going to talk about objects of torture. But I know that the anal plug , and all that is related to anal initiation , to sodomy , are subjects of fear among guys, even of rejection without having even tried. And yet, in your anus are two little treasures, the prostate and the perineum, which you can titillate with the anal plug. And of course, I specify that anal pleasure concerns all guys, whatever their sexuality: we all have the same anus, all with the same organs and the same nerve endings. So no fear about it that using a butt plug will make you less straight!!

But why do I advise you to use an anal plug during masturbation? To double the fun! And also to make your masturbation session longer. And in the end, to reach orgasm. The prostate is considered to be the G-spot of the man, it would still be a shame to deprive yourself of it!

If you are worried about the pain of inserting an object in your ass (let's talk as it should be), know that there is the small butt plug , also known as a beginner 's butt plug . They are slightly wider than a finger. You can also use a prostate stimulator which has a more curved shape than the anal plug (which is straight). Its curved shape will thus make it possible to titillate the prostate directly.

If you are new to anal pleasure, then I advise you to use the  Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator from Aneros :

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Opinion of Jonathan - Le Male Français on the Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator:

It's quite simply the ideal sex toy for discovering the joys of anal pleasure! Yes, I am talking about joy because when you have discovered this, you will not be able to do without it! This Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator is very pleasant to the touch, very soft, which allows gentle introduction into the anus. Likewise, it is relatively thin, which means that beginners will have no fear in using it. Its shape will directly touch the prostate and the base will allow you to press the perineum at the same time: double pleasure guaranteed.

Want to know more about anal plugs? Then I advise you to read my guide to anal plugs .


mechanical masturbation


Last masturbation technique, the one I called mechanical masturbation! Yes, I kinda made it up! It also consists of using a sex toy which is the masturbation sleeve, also called a masturbator.

Why is this interesting? Because you have nothing to do, just let the excitement rise and the sensations overwhelm you until you reach orgasm! That's not pretty! The masturbator is a sex toy in which you will insert your penis and then choose the right vibration. Then you let go! Some masturbators will even have additional options, such as a deep throat effect or even releasing a little heat to make your masturbation even hotter.

The masturbator we recommend: the Fleshlight Flight Pilot masturbator, one of the best-selling in the world .

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Opinion of Jonathan - Le Male Français on the Fleshlight Flight Pilot:

Why do I recommend this masturbator to you? For several reasons. On the one hand, Fleshlight is the specialist brand for non-disposable masturbators. Or you can reuse as you see fit. Then, these masturbators have different textures inside that will give you other sensations completely different from what you can feel with your hand . Basically, you will rediscover masturbation. Don't hesitate to apply gel to make the glide more pleasant. Ah, I forgot, whatever the length and thickness of your penis, it fits!

Excellent value.

I did a whole article on the best masturbator for me, which I invite you to read: What is the best masturbator?

How to make masturbation even more enjoyable

Now that I've told you about the different masturbation techniques, I'm going to give you two little tips to make masturbation even more enjoyable, whatever technique you use.

First of all, I advise you to use a lubricant. Yes, you read that right, a lubricant even if you're alone. When you masturbate, it must often happen to you to use your saliva that you will deposit on your glans, see your pre-seminal liquid if you wet a lot. The disadvantage is that the saliva dries quickly and you have to reapply it regularly. Also, I advise you to use a lubricant whose texture will last longer on your glans. And I even advise you to use an anal lubricant, which lasts even longer than lubricants made for the vagina.

Here is my selection of lubricants:

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But another product that I recommend is the heating masturbation cream  ! A real little treasure. This cream which comes in the form of a gel will melt as you go back and forth on your penis and heat it. Something to make you discover beautiful sensations!!


Review of Jonathan - The French Male:

Inevitably when I received this cream I hastened to test it. Having a hot sensation on the penis and glans was something I had never experienced. Well it's very very nice! A new sensation that brings additional pleasure to masturbation. So associated with a masturbator or a cock ring, it's a new experience guaranteed!


Small bonus? Do you know Tenga eggs ? If not, then I advise you to use at least one, if you have never used a masturbator. Their low price of less than €10 makes them a sex toy to use from time to time in your masturbation routine. There are several eggs available, each containing a different texture. You will love ! After the Kinder surprise eggs, you won't be able to do without them!!

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Tenga Masturbator

Egg Wavy


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Tenga Masturbator

Egg Spider


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Tenga Masturbator

Egg Crater



The poppers during masturbation

It is not possible to talk about increasing your pleasure during masturbation without mentioning poppers. A product which has been democratized in France by the gay community and which is now used by many guys, whatever their sexuality. And yes, the consumption of poppers is not only reduced for the purpose of dilation of the anus preparatory to sodomy , it can be used for all sexual practices

  • because it will increase your pleasure even more

  • it will increase your sexual arousal and you will thus let go even more

Even if poppers have been legal in France since 2013, their consumption is not recommended for anyone with health problems.


It is advisable to leave the open poppers bottle close to you and it will evaporate in the air. You will thus feel its effects over a longer period, without risk.

Do you want to buy poppers? The Jacquie et Michel boutique offers a large selection. We invite you to click on the image below to access it.


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