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How to properly use a prostate stimulator?

Are you considering buying a prostate stimulator or doing an anal initiation using this sex toy for men ? Well you're right because the prostate stimulator turns out to be one of the best sex toys to get off on, thanks to our famous G-spot, the prostate. Prostatic massage is a sexual act that can affect all guys, whatever their sexual orientation, we all have an anus with a prostate, whether you're straight or gay, who cares! The most important thing is to have fun, this is the reason for this sex toy test blog . This article will also concern guys who already have some experience of sodomy , in particular through the use of an anal plug .

Here is everything you need to know about the prostate stimulator below.

What are the sensations felt during a prostate massage?

The pleasure that one feels with a prostate stimulator is very varied depending on the men and their sensitivity. Their ability also to completely relax and let go with this sexual practice. In any case, the sensations felt during a prostate massage with a prostate stimulator are mainly ants in the pelvis and lower abdomen . Some men will also feel a strong heat that will spread throughout the body , a strong excitement called prostate orgasm.

Another point to take into account with a prostate stimulator or any other anal sex toy is the domination and submission side, the one receiving the massage can indeed be submissive depending on the position and the way in which his partner inserts the prostate stimulator. . The person receiving the prostate massage can consider themselves to be under the control of the person. This will give a certain rhythm to the sexual relationship.

Diffuse heat, loss of control, more intense pleasure, deeper longer than with simple masturbation for example, prostate stimulation therefore has many benefits, which it would be a shame to do without.

My advice for using a prostate stimulator properly

Wash your sextoy beforehand

Before you start using the prostate stimulator, even if you're in a hurry, you'll have to wash it off first. And yes, it all depends on how you store your sex toy, it is always best to wash it before inserting it into your anus. You should not insert any small dust that could be there or other particles, in this case you could create irritation, which would not be at all pleasant.

To properly wash your prostate stimulator, you have two options:

either you rinse it with lukewarm water and soap
either you can use a product specially adapted to clean sex toys, I have made a small selection for you below. or freezing.

Neutral water-based lubricant and sex toy cleaner pack

19,99€

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Pure Foaming Sex Toy Cleanser

11,99€

13,90€

8,95€

Apply a lubricant to your prostate stimulator

Then, once your prostate stimulator is clean, I advise you to lubricate it so that anal penetration is as smooth as possible. This is all the more important if you are not used to using such a sex toy, if you are in the middle of anal initiation and your anus is therefore not used to such sexual practice. However, do not use just any lubricant, I recommend that you start with an anal lubricant, rather than a lubricant made for the vagina, their composition is not identical. Indeed, the anus does not lubricate itself naturally, unlike the vagina. Also, it is necessary to have a lubricant that will last longer and above all that will not dry out under the effect of the heat produced by the back and forth movements of the prostate stimulator .

If you don't have any lube, I advise you to go through these steps:

work on dilating your anus with your fingers, first one finger, then two, then three.
do not hesitate to use a lot of saliva, and put it regularly.
also put saliva directly on your prostate stimulator.

But I prefer to tell you that this is not at all ideal. Not only do you risk creating mini-lesions in your anus, but the comfort will not be great. A good lubricant brings a lot to anal penetration with a prostate stimulator. Here is my selection below, all tested and approved!

Relax Anal + Lubricant

24,99€

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Water Sensation Anal Lubricant

13,99€

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Comfort and Performance Anal Lubricant

24,90€

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Menthol Anal Relaxing Lubricant

24,99€

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Choose a good position for the introduction of the prostate stimulator

Then, once your prostate stimulator is ready to use, all you have to do is relax and choose the right position , the one that suits you.

Relaxation is an important element because if you are stressed:

not only will your muscles not relax and you will have difficulty introducing the prostate stimulator
but in addition you risk missing out on the pleasure that a prostate massage offers.

To relax, if you are accompanied by your partner, I advise you to ask him to give you anilingus . The nerve endings located at the edge and in the anus will indeed excite you, so you will be better prepared for anal penetration with the prostate stimulator. What's more, rimming allows the deposit of saliva, which can have an additional lubricating effect. If you are alone, then you can either start with a masturbation to start getting aroused (with or without a masturbator), or use poppers which have an arousing effect for some people. But be careful when using it, this is a very chemical product, it is important to follow the instructions for use.

You can find my article: My tips for masturbating well
You can find my article: Masturbator for men, the complete guide

Then take a position that is most comfortable for you and that allows you to have the most unobstructed access to your anus (it makes sense). Generally the most suitable position when you are alone to put on a prostate stimulator is to lie on your back, the legs slightly apart (they can be raised) and the buttocks raised using a cushion for example. If you are with your partner, this position is also very suitable, but the 4 legged position is excellent.

How to insert the prostate stimulator into the anus?

Once the right position is found, I advise you to go slowly. But a gesture is very important to do as soon as you start to penetrate the prostate stimulator into the anus: push as if you were on the toilet. And yes, this action will relax the sphincter muscles, making it easier for you to insert the sex toy.

Then, bring it in gradually by making light back and forth movements. Then once the prostate stimulator is completely retracted, make light circular movements that will directly tickle the prostate. The pleasure is yours.

I don't feel pleasure with the prostate stimulator, is this normal?

You have just used a prostate stimulator and you have not felt any particular excitement, no prostate orgasm in sight? Don't worry, this is completely normal, every man will react differently.

there are indeed men who will immediately feel something as soon as he stimulates their prostate
and there are others for whom it will be necessary to tame it well before feeling the effects. Sometimes it takes time for the prostate to give you pleasure, while you learn how to titillate it well. So don't give up right away, but try again the following days.

What is the best prostate stimulator for us?

You can imagine that we have tested a certain number of prostate stimulators. And it is therefore with great transparency that we can tell you that the one we consider to be the best prostate stimulator is the Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator from Aneros. Besides, all the products of this brand are TOP.

Click on the image to access the Aneros catalog at Espace Plaisir:

The prostate stimulator to start

But among the Aneros range, the one that I liked the most because of its comfort, the softness of its material and its ability to tickle the prostate is Helix Syn Trident:

Opinion of Jonathan - Le Male Français on the Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator:

It's quite simply the ideal sex toy for discovering the joys of anal pleasure! Yes, I am talking about joy because when you have discovered this, you will not be able to do without it! This Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator is very pleasant to the touch, very soft, which allows gentle introduction into the anus. Likewise, it is relatively thin, which means that beginners will have no fear in using it. Its shape will directly touch the prostate and the base will allow you to press the perineum at the same time: double pleasure guaranteed.

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Here is a video presentation of this Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator:

The prostate stimulator for experienced guys

If you already have a good experience of anal sex, then we can advise you to test the prostate stimulator l'Élu de Têtu created in collaboration with the Passage du Désir boutique. As you can see from the image below, this prostate stimulator is indeed larger than the Helix Syn Trident from Aneros, so it will bring more pleasure to those who already have a little experience with this type of sex toy.

Have fun!

Here is a video presentation of this L'Elu prostate stimulator.

The 1st price prostate stimulator

If you don't want to spend too much on a prostate stimulator, because you already want to see if it will make you happy, if you are also ready to introduce yourself to a sex toy, especially if it's your first sex toy for men, in which case I can only recommend one of these two prostate stimulators below, for less than 15 €.