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My advice for successful pegging or pegging
Before starting this article, a small definition is necessary. Pegging, also found in its French form, pegging, is a sexual practice that simply involves a woman sodomizing a man with a dildo or strap-on . So we are talking here about anal penetration, sodomy , performed by a woman to a man. This sexual practice is therefore very clearly a reversal of roles which is more and more in vogue: anal sexual acts are experiencing a certain revival of interest these days, the practice of rimming or the use of anal plug -type sex toys , anal jewelry , prostate stimulator or anal hook are less and less taboo subjects.
Through this article, I will give you all my advice to make sure that your man, or your woman, accepts pegging in your sexual relations. I will also give you a selection of the best dildos.
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How do I get my wife to accept pegging?
You are a man and you would like to try the pegging, that your wife sodomizes you with a dildo? Already, do not worry about it, there is absolutely nothing abnormal! From the moment you have desires for anal penetration, whether to have fun, to have the feeling of being dominated by your wife, or to push your limits, you are perfectly free to have this desire.
The desire to be sodomized can indeed come in different ways:
during masturbation , you tried the experience of putting a finger in your anus for example and you liked it. This is completely normal, the anus contains many nerve endings thus making this part of the body an erogenous zone.
you've heard of the prostate and the effect it can have, you want to give it a try. You are also right! The prostate is considered to be the G fist of men, being able to offer stronger orgasms than ejaculations in some men. Why deprive yourself of it?
you were recently dominated by your wife during sex and you liked it. There's no shame, don't worry, it's not going to diminish your masculinity or manliness either. Sex should be seen as a game, where all scenarios are possible as long as everyone is respected.
But how to make your accept pegging or pegging?
first of all, the best solution is to talk to him about it. Of course, this means that in your couple, communication is perfectly free and that there are no taboo or unspoken subjects . Especially for everything related to sex games. You could thus ask him to tell you about his fantasies, and then you evoke in the exchange your own fantasies. Maybe they match each other and due to lack of communication you miss a lot together.
if you feel that communicating frankly is going to be difficult, take it one step at a time:
for example, show her a picture of pegging and ask her what she thinks about it. A discussion can thus begin if you feel it is open to discussion.
during your sexual intercourse, when she gives you a blowjob for example, do not hesitate to caress your anus at the same time (she will inevitably see it), or even to finger your anus. She will see that it is an area with which you take pleasure.
while she gives you a blowjob, do not hesitate to suggest that she lick your testicles and then make her understand, by kissing her head with one hand or by taking a certain position, that she can also put her tongue around the anus and in the anus.
As you will have understood, you must show her that the anus is an area in which she can go.
Once you have passed this stage of rimming, you can then move on to the next stage, that of introducing objects into your anus:
if you feel she liked it and can pegging, then surprise her to buy a dildo or a strap-on on the sly.
If you feel more steps are still needed, then start by buying a little anal plus , also known as a beginner's butt plug . Choose one that is pretty, colorful, fun, that doesn't scare her so that she really takes it as a game.
Here is our selection of plugs:
19,99€
How do I get my man to accept pegging?
Let's now put ourselves in the other diagram, you are a woman attracted by the pegging, by the pegging, and you would like to bring your man on this ground. Well, it's going to be a lot easier than you think, if you use the right words and the right manners!
Indeed, maybe you don't know it, but many men don't hesitate to put a finger in their ass while they masturbate! So obviously it's not a subject they talk about a lot during dinner, but yes, it's a fact, many men already know the sensations of anal penetration during masturbation. So of course it's with a finger, it has nothing to do with a dildo, penetration being easier. Also, perhaps your man already knows the sensations associated with the introduction of an object into his anus, so it will be easier to make him accept pegging, pegging.
If your man has never tried the experience of putting a finger in his anus to masturbate well , then try this:
tell him about the prostate and the effect it can have when titillated. Talk to him about prostatic orgasm, find articles that include testimonials from guys to reassure him.
during your reports,
when you lick his testicles, do not hesitate at the same time to tickle the perineum then gradually descend towards the anus. Don't put a finger in his anus right away, massage the contour of his anus, play with it. This will allow you to see his reaction. If he lets himself go, then try the next step by licking his buttocks then the outline of the anus. Do not hesitate to put a lick (rimming) from time to time.
try to see his state of domination: put him on lying on his stomach and climb on him stimulating the act of sodomy while biting his neck, shoulders, etc. This will allow you to see if this position excites him.
If after these tests you feel that anal stimulation is possible, you can then move on to the next step, that of anal penetration. But for her anal initiation , avoid:
the dildo, a dick in the ass may slow him down
the anal plug, the shape can be scary and give him false ideas of pain
Opt instead for a prostate stimulator , which has two advantages:
its thin and slender shape shows that it can be inserted into the anus without pain
its curved shape is made to touch the prostate: it will thus be able to have pleasure quickly, more easily than with a dildo or a plug. And if he takes pleasure quickly, then it will be won to move on to the pegging stage with the introduction of a larger object, the dildo.
Here is for example the best prostate stimulator in my opinion:
Opinion of Jonathan - Le Male Français on the Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator:
It's quite simply the ideal sex toy for discovering the joys of anal pleasure! Yes, I am talking about joy because when you have discovered this, you will not be able to do without it! This Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator is very pleasant to the touch, very soft, which allows gentle introduction into the anus. Likewise, it is relatively thin, which means that beginners will have no fear in using it. Its shape will directly touch the prostate and the base will allow you to press the perineum at the same time: double pleasure guaranteed.
How to prepare for pegging?
Now that you've decided to incorporate pegging or pegging into your sexual intercourse, here are my tips for preparing for it.
Preparation for pegging if you are a man
You've decided that tonight pegging will be the main course of your sex with your wife, so a little preparation is in order beforehand.
First of all, you will have to present your anus in its best light, because generally, in the preparation and dilation phase of the anus, rimming is an essential step (and which does a lot of good to raise the heat in itself). Also, do not hesitate to shave your anus or have your FIS waxed so that your wife is not embarrassed by the hairs. What's more, it's more hygienic, the hairs may have traces of faeces ...
Here are the products that I recommend to you to have a hairless SIF!
Designed for shaving the male body. Rounded head for maximum comfort. Three lubricating strips for maximum softness. Ergonomic non-slip handle for control in the shower.
The anti-irritation shaving gel allows easy shaving of body hair without irritation.
Suitable for the shower.
Then, I advise you to do an enema so that your rectum is perfectly clean and thus avoid any possible discomfort with fecal matter that could arise during your pegging session. Not to mention the smells... To do this, you can use an enema bulb .
I advise you to read my article: How to properly perform an anal enema?
Significant expansion work
Inserting a dildo in the anus is not a trivial thing, especially if it's the first time for sir. So you will have to go slowly, in particular by doing a job of dilation of the anus. Indeed, do not go immediately to put the dildo in the anus of your man without first doing a few naughty exercises.
So, here are my tips for making the pegging as satisfying as possible:
start with rimming .
then begin the work of dilation by penetrating one finger, then two, etc.
when the fingers enter without difficulty, insert an anal plug. For the dilation work to be as effective as possible, I advise you to use an inflatable anal plug, with which you will be able to perfectly dilate the anus. I therefore recommend this inflatable anal plug that can be found at Dorcelstore:
The importance of lubricants
Of course, any anal penetration must be accompanied by lubricant. This for two reasons:
the anus is an area that does not naturally lubricate unlike the vagina. It is therefore necessary to lubricate it to avoid any tearing.
then the lubricant will bring comfort but also additional pleasure! Especially if it is minty for example.
Always take an anal lube! These lubricants indeed last longer than conventional lubricants, they are more resistant.
Here is my selection of lubricants for the anus:
Which dildos to choose for pegging?
Come on, now that we have given you all our advice for pegging and pegging to be perfectly successful, here is our selection of the best dildos
Classic dildos
Even if the pegging consists mainly of taking your man with a strap-on, you can of course use classic dildos. It may be less BDSM and thus scare your man less.
Here is our selection of dildos:
Strap-on dildos
And of course, you have the famous strap-on dildos that will turn you ladies into dominatrixes!
Here is our selection of strap-ons:
Super Woman Strapon
34,90€
Strapon Vibrating
37,90€
How to amplify the pleasure of pegging?
We are going to position ourselves here in the situation of the man, because if you are a woman, you will be well occupied. But a man can enjoy pegging even more by using certain accessories!
Of course, during the act of pegging, we advise the man to masturbate. Either way you will do it naturally. However, we advise you to wait a little before masturbating in order to focus entirely on your anus.
But when you have decided to masturbate, why do a classic masturbation? You might as well discover new sensations during masturbation!
We therefore advise you to use a lubricant, or even a warming cream which will give you pleasant sensations of heat and therefore increase your excitement. To do this, I recommend the heated masturbation cream from Mediax .
Review of Jonathan - The French Male:
Inevitably when I received this cream I hastened to test it. Having a hot sensation on the penis and glans was something I had never experienced. Well it's very very nice! A new sensation that brings additional pleasure to masturbation. So associated with a masturbator or a cock ring, it's a new experience guaranteed!
But I advise you above all to use a cock ring which will give you new sensations at the level of the glans and especially excite your wife even more who will see your penis swollen, bigger, with visible veins. A sex toy for men that I highly recommend.
Opinion of Jonathan - Le Male Français on the We-Vibe Cockring Bond:
The strong point of this cock ring lies in its opening which allows very easy fitting around the penis (or around the testicles). And this regardless of the size of the penis. The remote control that comes with it allows you to play with the different vibration modes simply. The elongated shape of this cock ring also allows you to press on the perineum for even more sensations. A very good cock ring for a solo moment during masturbation or during a relationship with his/her partner.
Want more advice on pegging?
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