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How to properly stimulate the prostate and have a prostate orgasm?

Women have their G-spot and men also have their own point, synonymous with a powerful orgasm, the P-spot. The P refers to the prostate, a male organ that allows you to reach an orgasm still unknown to guys. . What a pity. So obviously, when we talk about prostatic orgasm, it necessarily refers to anal initiation , anal penetration or even sodomy , words that can scare many guys because they are synonymous with pain. But nay, through this sex toy test blog , we give you all our advice to avoid pain precisely by using certain sex toys for men .  

But concretely, what is prostate orgasm and how to achieve it? You will know everything in this article!

What is a prostate orgasm

Before giving you advice on how to achieve prostatic orgasm, it is still necessary to define what this type of orgasm is. As its name suggests, it concerns a male organ, the prostate. The prostate is actually a gland that contains seminal fluid. It is relatively easy to access because it is located under the bladder, at the front of the rectum. All it takes is a simple digital rectal examination to stimulate it. So how do you know if it is the prostate that you are touching: it is as simple as a gland, it has a slightly rounded and slightly swollen shape. To stimulate it, you have two options:

  • either do it with your finger (or your partner's finger)

  • or use a suitable anal sex toy, such as a prostate stimulator or an anal plug, but we will see it a little further down with our selection of the best products.


Prostate orgasm is very different from the orgasm you may have after ejaculation . In fact, when you ejaculate, you ultimately expel your pleasure. With a prostate orgasm, the sensation is completely different in the sense that the orgasm, the pleasure, is diffused through your body . This is why prostatic orgasm is considered better than ejaculatory orgasm because:

  • it spreads through the body like waves, causing a feeling of heat that is difficult to describe (you have to experience it), a total feeling of letting go. Some guys also have the impression of being in another world with a prostate orgasm.

  • it lasts longer, in fact it lasts as long as the prostate is tickled. Magic no!


If prostatic orgasm is so intense, why don't men resort to it more often? Well there are two reasons for this, two perfectly stupid reasons (pardon the expression):

  • male sexuality should only focus on penetrating their female partner for reproduction. It is a classic pattern of sexuality but which is still a norm today. While male sexuality is not all about penetration. In addition, men are not taught to learn their bodies, to touch themselves, to masturbate well. Thus, it is only recently that prostatic orgasm is brought to the fore.

Article that we advise you to read: how to masturbate well?

  • then the anus is a bit of a taboo place, dirty for some or reserved for gays for others. Yes, let's be clear, how many guys don't want to have their anus fingered or have their anus penetrated by a sex toy for fear of being mistaken for gay? While we are convinced that once alone, in their room, they have already tried it. This is still a very limited image of sexuality: all men should discover anal pleasure and thus have access to prostatic orgasm, whatever their sexual orientation!

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Our tips for having a prostate orgasm


Now that you have all the information on the sensations provided by a prostate orgasm, here are our tips for achieving it.

Successful preparation for prostate massage

Finally, to have a prostate orgasm, you will have to operate a prostate massage (prostate massage) whether with a finger or with a sex toy. Because it is by titillating the prostate that the pleasure will come. But for the massage to be as effective as possible, for you or your partner, you will have to follow certain instructions:

  • first of all, it is necessary to have short nails if you stimulate the prostate with a finger . The anus is a very fragile part of the body, any cut can cause pain. Similarly, if you have scratches on your fingers or a small wound, do not put it in the anus: it contains bacteria only present within it, they must not be spread.

  • then, you will have to go through the toilet box! This is the somewhat gory part of this article, when we talk about the anus, you have to go through it! Going to the toilet will allow you to clean your anus well and avoid unpleasant surprises accompanied by unpleasant odors (well, some people like that, but that's another subject!). So to clean your anus, you either have the option of going to the toilet a few hours (a few minutes) before the prostate massage, or you can perform an anal enema.

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  • finally the last piece of advice would be to pee before getting a prostate massage. Because you should know that the tickling of the prostate can make you want to pee!


What is the best position for a prostate massage?

For the pleasure to be guaranteed and therefore for the prostate orgasm to come, you will have to be very comfortable. Basically dear gentlemen, let all your attention be focused on your pleasure. And for this to be the most comfortable, the right position to take is one that will provide easy access to your anus. Whether it's for you (to finger your anus or insert an anal sex toy) or for your partner.

Thus, the most comfortable position to have a prostate orgasm is to lie on your back and bring your legs towards your stomach . This is how your anus will be the most open. To make it even more comfortable for you, you can put a pillow under your buttocks. This position is particularly not bad at all to receive at the same time a blowjob from your partner ... double pleasure guaranteed!!

If you're with your partner, another position for prostate orgasm is to get on all fours and spread your thighs slightly apart .

The prostate stimulator is therefore a conical but leaning object. It is not straight as we will see later with the anal plug. If it is bent, it is simply to go directly to touch the prostate once put in the anus , because the prostate is on one side of the rectal wall. It is therefore made to go straight to the point, directly to the prostate, and thus allow rapid enjoyment in the practice of anal sex. Even an orgasm, some men have a more powerful orgasm with anal sex using a prostate stimulator than with ejaculation. It's still a shame not to discover that!

Prostatic orgasm with a prostate stimulator

The prostate stimulator is the sex toy you need to achieve a prostate orgasm . It is the best sex toy for several reasons:


  • it is thin which allows it to be easily introduced into the anus, without any pain. And on this point, you can count on us!

  • it is slightly curved, which means that it will directly touch the prostate.


If you do not know which prostate stimulator to choose, we recommend a product from the Aneros brand. This is the specialist brand for prostate stimulators, these are the best products on the market. We have tested several of this brand and they are practical, gentle and really effective.

Click on the image to access the Aneros catalog at Espace Plaisir (discreet delivery, no mention on the package):

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But among the Aneros range, there is one in particular that we have found perfect for having a prostate orgasm, alone or with your partner, it is the Helix Syn Trident from Aneros:

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Opinion of Jonathan - Le Male Français on the Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator:

It's quite simply the ideal sex toy for discovering the joys of anal pleasure! Yes, I am talking about joy because when you have discovered this, you will not be able to do without it! This Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator is very pleasant to the touch, very soft, which allows gentle introduction into the anus. Likewise, it is relatively thin, which means that beginners will have no fear in using it. Its shape will directly touch the prostate and the base will allow you to press the perineum at the same time: double pleasure guaranteed.

If you are already used to anal penetration, then you can opt for a larger prostate stimulator, such as the L'Elu de Têtu prostate stimulator , produced in collaboration with the sexy online store Passage du Désir. Not only will you tickle the prostate, but you will also have the sensation of having a full anus, which can increase your pleasure.


As you can see from the photo, this L'Élu de Têtu prostate stimulator is much larger than the Helix Syn Trident from Aneros. It therefore requires either experience of anal penetration, or a good job of dilating the anus beforehand, especially with another finer anal sex toy. It also has a large intermediate ball in its center, which will give you some pleasure when inserting it into the anus. A very good sex toy to make the most of anal sex.

Do you want to discover prostatic orgasm at a lower price? Are you buying your first sex toy for men without spending too much money? So here is my selection of inexpensive prostate stimulators.

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Apollo Curved Prostate Probe Prostate Stimulator


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Apollo Curved Prostate Probe Prostate Stimulator


Remember to use an anal lubricant!

Here is a piece of advice that is very important to follow: before inserting anything into your anus, a finger or a prostate stimulator, do not forget to apply a lubricant both on your finger or the sex toy but also on the contours of your anus (and a little inside). Indeed the anus is not an organ that lubricates itself naturally. The lubricant will allow you:

to make the finger or the sex toy penetrate more easily

to have a feeling of comfort in use which can allow you to relax and better appreciate your prostate orgasm.

Here are the 100% anal lubricants that we recommend!

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Do you want to go even further on prostate orgasm?

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