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How to enjoy anal sex?

Anal sex is still a taboo subject today, perhaps the most taboo sexual subject, and few couples really discuss their desires regarding this sexual practice. Did you know for example that many women are tempted by pegging , this technique which consists of taking a man with a strap-on? But if the subject of anal sex is still taboo it is because the anus is not seen as a proper part of the body, or it is stereotyped among men as a practice reserved only for the gay community (which is of course not the case at all). Thus, still few people, especially among guys, have tested anal initiation or sodomy to talk differently about anal sex, when it can provide very beautiful sensations, intense sensations even not to say orgasmic thanks to the prostate .

Through this article, we are going to give you all our advice to make the most of anal sex , whether you are a complete beginner on the subject or more experienced.

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Which sex toy for anal sex?


If you want to discover anal sex through sex toys, then we will tell you below which sex toys we recommend you use. Each time we will give you ideas of very specific sex toys to use, which we have all tested beforehand of course!


The prostate stimulator for anal sex

The first anal sex toy that we are going to present to you to make the most of anal sex is the prostate stimulator . So, a little clarification from the start of this article, the prostate stimulator is a sex toy for men , because its objective is to tickle the prostate. And of course, women don't.

The prostate stimulator is therefore a conical but leaning object. It is not straight as we will see later with the anal plug. If it is bent, it is simply to go directly to touch the prostate once put in the anus , because the prostate is on one side of the rectal wall. It is therefore made to go straight to the point, directly to the prostate, and thus allow rapid enjoyment in the practice of anal sex. Even an orgasm, some men have a more powerful orgasm with anal sex using a prostate stimulator than with ejaculation. It's still a shame not to discover that!

The best brand of prostate stimulators


As for prostate stimulators, there are a very large number of them on the market. But there is one brand that stands out very clearly from the crowd, it's Aneros, the specialist brand for anal sex through its wide range of prostate stimulators. We therefore strongly advise you to choose it because these products are:

  • very good quality, solid, which is important

  • very soft, the silicone is very pleasant, thus allowing a good feeling when introducing the product into the anus

  • the base is very wide, which also allows you to tickle the perineum for even more sensations.

Click on the image to access the Aneros catalog at Espace Plaisir:

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But among the Aneros range, there is one that is particularly suitable for all guys who want to discover anal sex, who have never introduced any sextoy in their anus and who are a little apprehensive about this moment: it's the Aneros Helix Syn Trident:

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Opinion of Jonathan - Le Male Français on the Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator:

It's quite simply the ideal sex toy for discovering the joys of anal pleasure! Yes, I am talking about joy because when you have discovered this, you will not be able to do without it! This Helix Syn Trident prostate stimulator is very pleasant to the touch, very soft, which allows gentle introduction into the anus. Likewise, it is relatively thin, which means that beginners will have no fear in using it. Its shape will directly touch the prostate and the base will allow you to press the perineum at the same time: double pleasure guaranteed.

The prostate stimulator for experienced

Now, if you have already tried introducing sex toys into your anus, then you can try larger prostate stimulators, which will therefore allow you:

  • not only to titillate your prostate

  • but also to have a greater sensation of the filled anus, which can bring beautiful pleasures thanks to all the nerve endings present in the rectum

In concrete terms, we offer you an anal sex toy that combines both the advantages of a prostate stimulator and that of an anal plug, the prostate stimulator L'Elu de Têtu , produced in collaboration with the sexy online store Passage du Désir .


As you can see from the photo, this L'Élu de Têtu prostate stimulator is much larger than the Helix Syn Trident from Aneros. It therefore requires either experience of anal penetration, or a good job of dilating the anus beforehand, especially with another finer anal sex toy. It also has a large intermediate ball in its center, which will give you some pleasure when inserting it into the anus. A very good sex toy to make the most of anal sex.

If you don't have too much of a budget right now, or you just don't want to spend too much to discover the joys of anal sex, here are some entry-level prostate stimulators that will still prove to be very effective.

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Apollo Curved Prostate Probe Prostate Stimulator


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Apollo Curved Prostate Probe Prostate Stimulator


The plug for anal sex

But the perfect sex toy for anal sex, whether for women or for men, is the anal plug ! And concerning this sex toy, you will be spoiled for choice because the offer is so great! From the small anal plug to begin with, which is also called anal plug for beginners , to the large anal plug or even the XXL anal plug for fans of fisting (extreme practice of anal sex), passing through the intermediate plug which is the plug inflatable anal , you will have great pleasure in choosing the one that will suit you best.

But we are going to guide you, you shouldn't be disgusted with anal sex because of a bad choice of plug!

The plug to start with anal sex

If you are inexperienced with anal sex at all, then you will have to choose a perfectly adapted plug. Either a plug for beginners, of small width therefore, barely wider than 3 fingers glued to each other. Why go with a plug for beginners?

  • because your anus is fragile, and you do not fully master the work of dilation. So you have to go slowly to avoid any cracks, tears, injuries.

  • because you will also have to learn the pleasures of anal sex! What it feels like to have the sensation of a full anus, to move back and forth in the anus, etc. And nothing better for that than a plug for beginners.

Below is our selection of the ones we consider to be the best plugs for beginners.

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The inflatable plug to go further with anal sex

Now if you already have some experience with anal sex, and using a plug, then you can use an inflatable plug. Concretely, an inflatable plug is a plug that inflates:

  • either via a remote control,

  • either via the telephone if it is connected,

  • either via a button located at the base of the plug

  • or via a pump.


The advantage of this type of plug is that you will be able to push your limits, even how far you can go in inserting a plug of more or less size.


The idea is therefore to insert the inflatable plug into the anus at its minimum size and, when it is in the anus, to inflate it gradually. A very good sex toy to discover even more anal sex.

Here is the inflatable plug that we recommend, the Deep Expand that you find at Dorcelstore, to go even further in anal sex. A super comfortable inflatable plug, with a head that inflates a lot.

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The best lubricants for anal sex


It's fine to talk about anal sex, but there is an accessory that will be mandatory for any anal practice, whether with fingers, with a point, with a forearm, a penis or even with a sex toy. is the lubricant. But beware, not just any lubricant: for anal sex it is essential to choose an anal lubricant .

There are indeed different types of lubricants:

  • the lubricant for the vagina, which will be a complement to the natural lubrication of the vagina.

  • the anal lubricant, 100% suitable for anal sex. However, the anus does not lubricate itself naturally, nature did not in fact foresee that one day we can take advantage of it to introduce things into it!


The anal lubricant will thus be stronger than the lubricant for the vagina, more resistant to the heat caused by the back and forth movements. It will therefore not dry as quickly, you will have less need to put it on for your comfort and especially the one who is being sodomized.

Here are the 100% anal lubricants that we recommend for your anal sex party. All tested. We put a mentholated lubricant for the cool side it brings, you will see it's a small sensation that is not unpleasant at all!!

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Want to take anal sex even further?

If in addition to this article you would like to have even more information on anal sex, especially through testimonials from guys, then I invite you to subscribe to my Instagram account Faistoimale . In particular, you will find in stories on the front page content that talks about this subject. Good discovery !

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